Girl Chat: 5 Sex Positions That Can Help You Orgasm
Updated: 3 days ago
There is a huge percentage of women that haven't experienced a "solely vaginal" orgasm. So it's totally normal if this is you. You are not alone. Everyone is different and there's a chance that this percentage of people just haven't met their match (as far as bringing the big O). Now there is no right or wrong way to orgasm vaginally. There can be other factors that play a role into why you can't reach your big O without clitoral stimulation etc. But sometimes it can be as simple as finding the right position with your partner.
Have you ever experienced amazing orgasms with one partner and tried to repeat sex positions and/or other sexual acts with another partner to achieve the same amazing orgasm?
Did you succeed? Most will have the answer ’NO’.
Different partners mean different size, shape, and technique. Although I believe the size of a penis doesn’t matter and you can have orgasms and great sex with any size penis; it may play a factor in why that one position in the past that worked for you isn’t working now.
So let’s change it up! Here are 5 positions you should try if you haven’t already with your partner to get your big O.
5 Sex Positions To Make You Orgasm
1. The L Position
This is when you are on your back laying down with one leg up and one leg out. MIND blowing experience! This is a great position because your partner has total access to lots of your potential ’hot spots’. These may include your breast, neck (for consensual choking), clitoris, etc. (Watch video for more detail) Also, in this position, you have full access to stimulate your clitoris! Stimulating your clitoris during sex can help you reach the orgasm you deserve. Whether you are using your hand to rub your clitoris or a vibrator, stimulating your clitoris during sex can help you reach an orgasm! This position is definitely one worth trying!
2. Legs on Shoulder ( The G- Whiz )
Now this position is a MUST try if you haven’t experienced it with your current partner. Very close to missionary but your partner has even more access to penetrate even deeper vaginally or anally. It’s still very intimate like missionary but more kinkier. Could be a potential squirting position!
Just because this position may help with G-spot stimulation doesn't mean you have to forget about your clitoris. Have your partner use their fingers or bring a small vibrator into the mix. Sometimes combining internal pressure with clitoral stimulation is exactly what makes the experience more pleasurable.
3. Cowgirl
The experience of dominance, pleasing your partner, and/or just how it feels for them to be inside of you can lead to you having a mind blowing pleasurable orgasm. There are many techniques to cowgirl (’riding’) that can change how it feels for you and your partner. For example, using your feet to go up and down versus using your knees and rocking your butt back and forth or in a circular motion. When you find that right stroke, you and your partner will be in for a world of fun!
4. Flat Iron
Whew chile! This one right here?! Will have you squirting and orgasming everywhere.. maybe. That has definitely been my experience and I urge you to try. No actually I DEMAND you try! Size can make a difference with this position because of your butt being right there (unless your doing anal) so this could be a factor that impacts whether or not you reach that big O. What I like about this position is that keeping your legs closer together can create a snugger feeling during sex. And because you're lying down, you can relax and focus on enjoying the sensations instead of trying to hold yourself up. Also, try placing your hand or a small vibrator underneath you for some extra clitoral stimulation.
5. Reverse Cowgirl
Make all those ugly faces you want because your butt is doing all of the work. You can get your dominance, show off your round big booty, and/or love experiencing feeling your partner without having to worry about your facial expressions. Now, one thing I love about reverse cowgirl is that you're in control, girl! You get to decide how fast or slow you want to go, how deep the penetration feels, and what angle works best for you. And don't think you have to spend the whole time bouncing up and down either. Try slowing things down and rocking or grinding your hips to see what feels good.
And here's another little tip. Since a lot of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, this position is great because you have easy access to your clitoris. So go ahead and bring your fingers or your favorite vibrator into the mix.
Bonus Positions
6. The Boat
Turn the ‘Kink’ up with this one! Being close to ‘doggy style‘ this one can be rough and/or passionate. If your into hair pulling, butt slapping and/or neck grabbing, tell you partner that you both have to try this. Could have you orgasming everywhere!
7. Missionary
I love this one. It’s so passionate and intimate! People try to say this position is boring but this is the ultimate love making position. It doesn’t have to be always slow but it is a good way to really connect. Look in each others eyes, say sexy things to one another, kiss and reach ecstasy together.
It’s important to talk to your partner and pay attention to cues on whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Also, expressing what you like and need because you have to each your orgasm too. There's nothing wrong with talking about what you want to try and what you like. Anotner MYTH. ‘It’s weird to talk about sex before or after you do it’. No it’s the perfect time! Be open and have fun!
This is a judgement free zone! We are open about our sex lives and that's ok! 99% of adults have sex. There's nothing to be ashamed of.
Yesssss Sis! Great tips! Thank you 😍