Girl Chat: 5 Sex Positions That Can Help You Orgasm

There is a huge percentage of women that haven't experienced a "solely vaginal" orgasm. So it's totally normal if this is you. You are not alone. Everyone is different and there's a chance that this percentage of people just haven't met their match (as far as bringing the big O). Now there is no right or wrong way to orgasm vaginally. There can be other factors that play a role into why you can't reach your big O without clitoral stimulation etc. But sometimes it can be as simple as finding the right position with your partner.

Have you ever experienced amazing orgasms with one partner and tried to repeat sex positions and/or other sexual acts with another partner to achieve the same amazing orgasm? Did you succeed? Most will have the answer ’NO’.

Different partners mean different size, shape, and technique. Although I believe the size of a penis doesn’t matter and you can have orgasms and great sex with any size penis; it may play a factor in why that one position in the past that worked for you isn’t working now.

So let’s change it up! Here are 5 positions you should try if you haven’t already with your partner to get your big O.

5 Sex Positions To Make You Orgasm

1. The L Position

This is when you are on your back laying down with one leg up and one leg out. MIND blowing experience! This is a great position because your partner has total access to lots of your potential ’hot spots’. These may include your breast, neck (for consensual choking), clitoris, etc. (Watch video for more detail)

2. Legs on Shoulder

Now this position is a MUST try if you haven’t experienced it with your current partner. Very close to missionary but your partner has even more access to penetrate even deeper vaginally or anally. It’s still very intimate like missionary but more kinkier. Could be a potential squirting position!

3. Cow Girl

The experience of dominance, pleasing your partner, and/or just how it feels for them to be inside of you can lead to you having a mind blowing pleasurable orgasm. There are many techniques to cow girl (’riding’) that can change how it feels for you and your partner. For example, using your feet to go up and down versus using your knees and rocking your butt back and forth or in a circul motion. When you find that right stroke, you and your partner will be in for a world of fun!

4. Flat Iron

Whew chile! This one right here?! Will have you squirting and orgasming everywhere.. maybe. That has definitely been my experience and I urge you to try. No actually I DEMAND you try! Size can make a difference with this position because of your butt being right there (unless your doing anal) so thus could be a factor that impacts whether or not you reach that big O.

5. Reverse Cow Girl

Make all those ugly faces you want because your butt is doing all of the work. You can get your dominance, show off your round big booty, and/or love experiencing feeling your partner without having to worry about your facial expressions.

Bonus Positions

6. The Boat

Turn the ‘Kink’ up with this one! Being close to ‘doggy style‘ this one can be rough and/or passionate. If your into hair pulling, butt slapping and/or neck grabbing, tell you partner that you both have to try this. Could have you orgasming everywhere!

7. Missionary

I love this one. It’s so passionate and intimate! People try to say this position is boring but this is the ultimate love making position. It doesn’t have to be always slow but it is a good way to really connect. Look in each others eyes, say sexy things to one another, kiss and reach ecstasy together.

It’s important to talk to your partner and pay attention to cues on whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Also, expressing what you like and need because you have to each your orgasm too. Theres nothing wrong with talking about what you want to try and what you like. Anotner MYTH. ‘It’s weird to talk about sex before or after you do it’. No it’s the perfect time! Be open and have fun!

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