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How to Talk Dirty With Confidence (Even If You Feel Awkward)
Dirty talk is one of those things that sounds hot in theory. Then you try it, and your brain goes blank, you feel awkward, or you say something that does not feel like you. If that sounds familiar, that is completely understandable. Dirty talk feels awkward at first for a lot of people. Dirty talk is a skill. It gets easier with practice, comfort, and a little structure. This blog will help you: Understand why dirty talk feels awkward at first. Learn how to talk dirty in a wa
Candace Aloway
1 day ago6 min read


5 Ways to Make Him Want You (And How to Keep That Energy in the Bedroom)
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Why doesn’t he want me like he used to?” Maybe the flirting feels lighter, the effort feels lower, and even the bedroom energy feels quieter. Or maybe you are not even with him yet, and you are thinking, “How do I get him to notice me, want me, and actually pursue me for real?” Making someone want you is not about begging, chasing, or trying to be perfect. It is about the energy you bring, the way you carry yourself, and how you make
Candace Aloway
Jan 276 min read


Why You’re Not in the Mood — Even When You Love Your Partner (And What’s Actually Going On)
You love your partner. You’re attracted to them. So why does sex sometimes feel like… the last thing you want? If you’ve ever found yourself thinking “What’s wrong with me?” or “Why don’t I want it like I used to?” — you are far from alone . One of the most common (and least talked about) struggles in relationships is the disconnect between love and desire . And despite what movies, social media, or outdated sex advice might suggest, being “not in the mood” does not mean y
Candace Aloway
Jan 54 min read


How to Make Your Girl Feel Real Good in the Bedroom (And Keep Her Craving More)
When it comes to intimacy, it’s not just about the act itself. It’s about connection, confidence, and chemistry. The truth is, most women crave more than just physical touch — they want to feel seen , wanted , and completely desired . If you can tap into that, you’re not just giving pleasure… you’re creating an experience she won’t forget. So, let’s talk about how to make your girl feel really good in the bedroom — mind, body, and soul. 1. Start Before You Even Touch Her Goo
Candace Aloway
Oct 21, 20255 min read


Erotic Bedroom Commands: Sexy Things to Say & How To Talk Dirty During BDSM
If you’ve ever been in the middle of a steamy BDSM scene and thought, “I wish I knew the right words to say right now,” you’re not alone. Talking dirty in a BDSM context isn’t just about being naughty, it’s about control, power, surrender, and feeding into your partner’s desires. The right command or phrase can heighten arousal, intensify the dynamic, and turn a good session into something absolutely unforgettable. Think of this as a little cheat sheet from a friend who’s be
Candace Aloway
Oct 1, 20254 min read


How To Make Him Feel Like He's The Only Man In The World! Make Him Feel Special!
1. Boost His Ego (In a Positive Way) Shower him with genuine praise! Highlight what makes him stand out—his incredible strength, sharp...
Candace Aloway
Jul 29, 20254 min read


Overcoming Bedroom Boredom: Fresh Techniques Couples Are Trying This Year!
Hey, lovebirds! Let’s talk about the elephant in the bedroom: boredom. If you’ve been with your partner for years—or even decades—you...
Kim Day
Jul 9, 20254 min read


Confidence is King/Queen
What is authentic confidence? According to the dictionary, confidence is a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. This definition seems a little vague; I think it's a bit more complex than that. Confidence is the result of a developed self-awareness or self-identity, positive self-image and healthy personal belief in oneself. What does it look like when all of these things are present and in order? Most of us have met s
Kim Day
Jan 30, 20224 min read
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